You should go to the doctor

I identified so strongly with her, which is odd because I don’t have a chronic illness.  It was amazing that a fellow med student would get up there, in front of all of us (in our white coats), and tell us about being a patient. Doctors are not good at being patients. Neither are med students. We are not so good at taking care of ourselves.  Just look herehereand here.  These example focus mostly on mental health*, but there are plenty of examples of doctors as terrible patients with other diseases like cancer, heart disease, and diabetes.

The class was clearly more interested in asking about this patient/student’s (PS) experience than other patients we’d seen. 

“Has your [illness] affected your career path at all?”

“Um, well I’m going into [a specialty that deals with this illness]”

“When you become a [specialist], do you think you’ll just be your own doctor?”

 The professor cut in here and said sternly, “You should never be your own doctor,” and PS agreed. The student who had asked retorted, “Yeah, but how realistic is that?”

We could taste it – the distain for being a patient. We could feel the desire to control and manage our own disease – imagining ourselves up there.

We also wanted to know how she managed rotations and her chronic illness. Turns out she didn’t control it as well as she would have if she were not in medical school with long days. Wow – what a healthy environment.

PS admitted she didn’t go for her yearly visits to certain specialists, claiming that since she’s had her illness for so long, she knew when something changed. But she’d also admitted that her prodrome to medical crises diminished over the years. And how many of us haven’t noticed subtle changes in our bodies right away?

So why did I identify with her? I could imagine myself up there, saying the same things, ignoring the same guidelines I would use to treat patients.  How many times have I already told my friends, “go to the doctor, go to the doctor” (after asking them a bunch of questions, of course), while putting off my own appointments?  Part of it is that managing anything other than school has gotten increasingly difficult. This includes bills, laundry, doctors’ appointments, cooking food, maintaining friendships**, etc. Another part of it is a refusal to be sick. I don’t have time to be sick (who does, why I am any different?). Another part is that barrier that’s gone up between us (medical professionals) and them (patients). This barrier is necessary in order to do our jobs effectively. It’s a fine line, however. Make that barrier too high and you’ll forget the “them” on the other side are human beings with complex lives, not just complex chemical processes. Don’t build that barrier and you’ll bleed too much for each and every patient and you’ll burn out. 

Also – I know how easily errors can happen, I know how scary hospitals really are. I. Never. Want. To. Be. A. Patient.

*mental health is another topic, and I’m luckily fairily happy as far as med students go.
**I’m pretty good at this, I work hard to take the time to foster my relationships


  1. I was a 'chronic patient' through most of medical school. I got better less than a year ago.

    I don't think I would have gotten this far had I not been in medical school. Ever since, I make a conscious effort to take care of myself.

  2. That's great. I'm interested how med school helped you get further in your treatment/care than you think you would have otherwise.

  3. Goodness me, would that I were not! ;( But a goodly post is this. ;) Looking forward to reading more from you! Best and cheers,